well ill be honest and say im no where near a mechanic! and dont know too much about cars

below is a list of what im looking at upgrading asap! please leave me suggestions on where to get these items, pricing for the parts and install price roughly if you know these please!
3 inch or maybe up to 4 inch lift kit *heard over 2 inch is illegal but seen alot of lifts over that sooo whats the go there?* i live in w.a btw
14inch scorpion rims with nice big a/t tires
new exhaust system....the cat converter is going out so looking at getting a straight through exhaust if you guys see no probs in that (2.5inch system is what i have in-mind...)...got no idea on where to start looking for the exhaust kit so whats your suggestion?
any suggestions? and anything else you suggest i upgrade to make her a loverly 4wd'er?
thanks for joining my adventure people, your help will be GREATLY appreciated