saddest time in my life

dibs · Post by **dibs** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 7:49 am

hi guys
its been a wile since iv been here due to work and other stuff . but a BIGER other stuff has struck its ugly head up in our way . 2 1/2 mths ago mrs dibs my wife was diagnosed with cancer in her groin . after some quick thinking and loud noises at nambour hospital . she was operated on and they removed an egg size tumour from her right groin . after an anguishing head f*(&^d 2 weeks we were told it was 2nd stage melanoma that cut is 140 mm in her groin . now she has to go back and have another opp strating halfway between her knee and hear hip they will start to cut again and this one will be about 5/600 mm long .
since this has happened we have realised how short life can be and how cruel it is sometimes .hey if i break a car or truck i can usualy fix it but this shit is realy up to god (if he does exist ) . all we can do is hope for the best and prepare for the worst . i know theres alot of people out there rooting for us and have offered help when we need it and all i can say is a BIG thank you .
there is probably other people out there with similar or bigger problems and i do feel for them .
all i can say is live life to the fullest life's to short

i will update as things progress

INEEDABEER · Post by **INEEDABEER** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 7:59 am

We are all thinking and praying for Della that she gets through this. Nobody deserves this least of all you guys.

YouTube · Post by **El_Freddo** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 8:11 am

Sorry to hear about this dibs!

I hope all turns out well and the rollercoaster ride is almost over for the two of you with your wife returning to good health.

Regards

Bennie

RSR 555 · Post by **RSR 555** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 9:23 am

That's sh*t az bro and whether there's a God or not we will all pray for Mrs Dibs.

All the best mate and get well soon Mrs Dibs.

subybrumby · Post by **subybrumby** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 12:59 pm

All the best Della and Graham..life can hand us a real blow but I know you will come through with this. You are both strong .....

pezimm · Post by **pezimm** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 3:06 pm

dibs wrote:all i can say is live life to the fullest life's to short

Very well said. It's things like these that make me think the problems we have day-to-day are so small and insignificant...

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Regards,
Pedro.

littlewhiteute · Post by **littlewhiteute** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 5:58 pm

Sorry to hear, all the best for a speedy and healthy recovery.

Wagonman · Post by **Wagonman** » Sat Dec 10, 2011 7:00 pm

Be strong for your wife and keep her spirit up. Ill be praying for you and mrs dibs.

alang · Post by **alang** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:23 am

Sorry to here hope every thing goes your way with the ops and hoping for a fast recovery. it seems like more people are getting the big C the brother is recovering from prostate cancer and one of our friends has stage 3 breast cancer. i just had the blood test for the prostate and it came out clear would recommend having a visit to your local doctor and getting the test done on a regular basis

Alan

rtcb65 · Post by **rtcb65** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 7:55 am

All the best to you both and are in all our prayers up here.

Post by **TOONGA** » Sun Dec 11, 2011 9:42 am

Do your best to be there for your wife through thick or thin but remember to take care of yourself as well. You won't be able to help your wife if you are unable to help yourself.

TOONGA

chubby37 · Post by **chubby37** » Wed Dec 28, 2011 12:34 am

All the best guys and I know how your feeling.as has been offered if I can be of help let me know.

revmax · Post by **revmax** » Wed Dec 28, 2011 4:18 am

Thanks for sharing your story Dibbs and please keep us up to date.
On the up side Dibbs it has been diagnosed and things have been done about it, try to stay positive there Dibs.
My Father beat bladder cancer this year.

Ya know we get people in our store complaining about the smallest things and it realy anoys me to listen to them complain. Sometimes I wish I could just say to them. "Get a real problem" But I am not game just incase they do.

NachaLuva · Post by **NachaLuva** » Wed Dec 28, 2011 2:05 pm

I only just found this thread. So sorry to hear of your problems, it really is a reminder how fragile humans are. terrible timing just before xmas but as has been mentioned at least they've found it & now she can be trteated & make a full recovery. My heart goes out to you, your wife & family & friends. I wish Mrs Dibbs a full & speedy recovery. Keep positive, the mind has amazing powers to heal if kept positive. Good luck mate...